build: pin sqlsrv and grpc PECL versions for PHP compatibility

- sqlsrv 5.13.0 raised minimum to PHP 8.3; pin PHP 8.1-8.2 to 5.12.0
- grpc 1.80.0 uses EG(max_allowed_stack_size) gated on PHP_VERSION_ID>=80300
  but the field is absent in ASan builds because the ZEND_CHECK_STACK_LIMIT
  autoconf test cannot execute sanitized binaries during configure; pin to
  1.78.0 which predates that change

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

Author: morrisonlevi

dockerfiles/ci/bookworm/build-extensions.sh

@@ -64,6 +64,8 @@ elif [[ $PHP_VERSION_ID -le 74 ]]; then
   SQLSRV_VERSION=-5.8.0
 elif [[ $PHP_VERSION_ID -le 80 ]]; then
   SQLSRV_VERSION=-5.11.0
+elif [[ $PHP_VERSION_ID -le 82 ]]; then
+  SQLSRV_VERSION=-5.12.0
 fi
 
 HOST_ARCH=$(if [[ $(file $(readlink -f $(which php))) == *aarch64* ]]; then echo "aarch64"; else echo "x86_64"; fi)
@@ -195,7 +197,7 @@ else
 
   # ext-grpc is needed for google spanner
   if [[ $PHP_VERSION_ID -ge 80 && $PHP_VERSION_ID -lt 85 ]]; then
-    pecl install grpc;
+    pecl install grpc-1.78.0;
     # avoid installing it by default, it seems to stall some testsuites.
   fi